The most difficult conversations to have can be the ones that are the most important. In some cases, they could be the conversations that save a life.
WHY IT MATTERS: That conversation is talking about mental health challenges, and in the month of September, specifically suicide. Mike Wade, the Coordinator of Community Wellness and Outreach at New River Valley Community Services says “It’s one in four or one in five adults every year that have a serious, diagnosable mental health condition . . . I would argue that we probably all 100% of us at some point have some kind of mental health setback that a lot of us can manage and get through ourselves. But sometimes we need professional help, and that’s okay. That’s the best way to do it.”
- Wade says that although the statistics reveal at least 20% of the population battles a mental health disorder, it goes undiagnosed more often than not because people are scared to have the conversations surrounding mental health because of a negative stigma. “Suicide has been a taboo subject that a lot of people aren’t comfortable talking about. But the only way to really address that as a community is to get it out in the open and talk about it, and despite what a lot of people may think, talking about suicide doesn’t increase the likelihood that someone will actually follow through with that act,” says Wade. “In fact, it does just the opposite, and those direct conversations with someone that we may have concerns about can actually prevent them from moving forward with a plan to end their life.”
Mike Wade, the Coordinator of Community Wellness and Outreach at New River Valley Community Services, speaks with TheNewsFeedNRV about Suicide Prevention Month.
THE BIG PICTURE: Wade says 50,000 Americans die from suicide each year and it’s a combination of everyone. “It’s not an issue that discriminates based on income, race or gender,” says Wade. “We know that some populations have a great risk of suicide, but I think a lot of people would be surprised to learn that actually older adults, seniors 80 and over, actually have the highest rate of suicide of any demographic.”
- There’s no one factor that drives a person to want to commit suicide. The majority of the time, it is the result of a person feeling such emotional distress that they feel the only way out is to take their own life. But Wade says one of the best ways to help someone who might be considering suicide is to just know they are not alone- There’s always an ear willing to listen. “Despite how bad things might seem in your life, in your particular situation or in that moment, there’s always someone you can talk to,” says Wade. “A complete stranger, a friend or a family member.”
ZOOM IN: This month, the country is breaking down those obstacles that make it seem like suicide is a difficult topic to talk about through Suicide Prevention Month. “This month is really just about recognizing that this is something that somebody we love and care about, or even ourselves can go through and there’s no definitive timeline on when we might experience this or any kind of key indicators that might trigger this,” says Wade. “It’s just a really good opportunity for us to raise awareness at the community level so we in turn can do more to help individuals that struggle with this issue.”
- Although suicide prevention is shared more through the month of September, that doesn’t mean it’s the only time to be aware of it in our community. There are always resources available for those struggling with suicidal thoughts or know someone struggling – Right from your phone and right here in the New River Valley.
The New River Valley Community Service Center is location in Radford, VA.
ZOOM OUT: Suicide prevention is every day, every month of every year. The best way to reach out in an emergency if you or someone you know is in a crisis is by dialing the national line at 988. Wade says calling that number will reroute your call to a local provider, like New River Valley Community Services, to speak with someone in real time.
- “We at NRVCS have been really intentional over the last couple of years about expanding our crisis continuum to be a little more comprehensive and to really be helpful getting people connected in a timely manner,” says Wade. “So that they can potentially stay in the community and not have to be diverted to hospitals or be served at the crisis level.”
New River Valley Community Service is based in Radford. Wade says no matter what your situation is, they’ll offer someone to speak with so those tough conversations don’t seem so hard.
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